In Minnesota, it is not uncommon for couples to file for divorce without legal representation. As they move through the Minnesota courts system parties complete and file the necessary paperwork that documents the terms of their divorce settlement. For example, couples must divide assets and debts, and parents must determine custody and other parenting agreements.

Mediation is a valuable asset for couples navigating the divorce process, especially if they are unrepresented by attorneys. In the courts this is referred to as “pro se” representation which literally means “on one’s own behalf.” Mediation is a process that takes place outside the courtroom and allows parties to construct their own settlement agreement. A divorce mediatoris not a decision maker; rather, he or she meets with the parties and facilitates a candid conversation about the facts of their caseand helps the parties craft theirown agreement. When conflict arises, the mediator brings a neutral perspective and helps identify possible alternative solutions.

With mediation, it is possible to reach a complete settlement without retaining attorneys and minimize or eliminate court appearances. Some parties engage attorneys to review the final agreement before filing and some retain attorneys during the mediation process. No matter where they are in the process, parties never lose the option to work with attorneys and/or turn the decision making over to the courts.If only a partial settlement is possible, that agreement can be submitted to the court and unresolved issues addressed in trial.

Each case is unique. Whether parties retain divorce attorneys or handle the case themselves, mediation allows parties to save money and time; and more importantly, to control their own outcomes and customize an agreement that meets their specific needs and requirements.


The safety of clients, ourselves, and colleagues is our top priority while we remain available to assist you as you navigate the new and uncharted territory caused by the coronavirus pandemic.


Offering All Services Virtually

While providing virtual ADR services was not part of our plan, we have made the necessary accommodations to ensure we can continue to serve our clients during these unsettling times. All services are currently available through virtually. We are using Zoom for videoconferencing. We suggest that you download this app to your phone or the program to your computer at


Limited In-Person Services

We have resumed limited in-person services for sessions with 1 or 2 participants scheduled for a maximum of 2 hours. Masks are required in our building and in session. Availability is subject to change based on local regulations and CDC guidelines.


Office Hours

Our office hours remain the same and we remain available by phone and email. The main office number is 952.252.1492. Gabe can be reached via email at


New Clients Welcome

We offer free 1-hour divorce consultations via Zoom. Potential PC and PTE clients are invited to schedule a free 15-minute phone call. Please call 952.252.1492 to set up an appointment. We are here to help!

Thank you for your patience and understanding as we all continue to adapt to these rapidly changing and chaotic times. Stay strong, stay resilient, and stay healthy!


Amber Serwat & Gabe Frye
ADR Professional & ADR Assistant

Divorce Mediation & Dispute Resolution Services - Amber Serwat Mediation

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