As hard as it is to be an adult going through the experience of divorce, we should never forget that it is likely to be far more difficult for children of parents who are seeking a divorce. Children, after all, count on their parents to help shape their understanding of the world around them. When the stability of their lives is disrupted, sometimes even shattered, by their parents’ seeking a divorce, untold numbers of traumas may be experienced by that child.The enormity of divorce for adults is inclined to prevent at least some attention from being paid to the child, which in turn can lead to the stress of a disrupted life altering the child’s personality and perhaps even causing psychological damage.

Family Mediation Provides Support To Every Member Of Your Family

Children are no doubt resilient too. But divorcing parents must recognize that their choices have an impact on their children, whose ability to accurately perceive adult realities are not mature enough to understand them accurately without intervention, clarity, or support being provided to them. Even for the most sensitive, empathic, and attentive parent going through a divorce, there is often not enough time or energy to provide the child with the sensitivity, empathy, and attention the child needs.

Family Support Services

Fortunately, there are services available to assist divorcing parents with such things. AMS Mediation offers all a wide variety of support to families who are in the midst of divorce. AMS Mediation has a large menu of services designed to minimize the negative consequences of parents’ decision to finalize the end of their marriage. A few of the many services are included below:

  • Parent Time Expediting – which can help determine the best possible solution to visitation for the divorcing parents.
  • Parenting Consultation – which is expert advice on how to approach specific situations, especially regarding the remaining conflict that may exist between the divorcing parents.
  • Parent Coaching – for the ongoing challenges of working with one’s ex-spouse and ensuring that each parent is doing what is in the best interest of the children affected by the divorce.
  • Parent Mediation – for specific attention to resolving conflict between the parents during and after the divorce process.
  • Parenting After Divorce – There is a link on the Amber Serwat Mediation website to an excellent article on how to effectively parent in the days, weeks, months, and years after divorce.

AMS Mediation understands that divorce ends a marriage, but that it does not end the relationships between the members of the family. If you would like to provide support to your family by partnering with AMS Mediation, call 1.952.252.1492 for more information.




The safety of clients, ourselves, and colleagues is our top priority while we remain available to assist you as you navigate the new and uncharted territory caused by the coronavirus pandemic.


Offering All Services Virtually

While providing virtual ADR services was not part of our plan, we have made the necessary accommodations to ensure we can continue to serve our clients during these unsettling times. All services are currently available through virtually. We are using Zoom for videoconferencing. We suggest that you download this app to your phone or the program to your computer at


Limited In-Person Services

We have resumed limited in-person services for sessions with 1 or 2 participants scheduled for a maximum of 2 hours. Masks are required in our building and in session. Availability is subject to change based on local regulations and CDC guidelines.


Office Hours

Our office hours remain the same and we remain available by phone and email. The main office number is 952.252.1492. Gabe can be reached via email at


New Clients Welcome

We offer free 1-hour divorce consultations via Zoom. Potential PC and PTE clients are invited to schedule a free 15-minute phone call. Please call 952.252.1492 to set up an appointment. We are here to help!

Thank you for your patience and understanding as we all continue to adapt to these rapidly changing and chaotic times. Stay strong, stay resilient, and stay healthy!


Amber Serwat & Gabe Frye
ADR Professional & ADR Assistant

Divorce Mediation & Dispute Resolution Services - Amber Serwat Mediation

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