During a divorce, many parents find it difficult to communicate with their soon-to-be ex-spouse about the various issues that need to be discussed, such as property division, financial support and child custody. Additionally, many parents fear that the divorce will negatively impact their children into adulthood. When parents allow their pain and anger to manifest in front of their children, it causes the children to suffer from stress and anxiety.

During a family court trial in Minnesota, parents oftenbelieve they need to “win” each issue.  In order to “win” custody, each must show that they are the better parent. This typically means that witnesses are called to testify about the supposedly poor parenting skills of one parent while emphasizing the strong parenting skills of the other, a process which is very hurtful to all involved. The focus on winning in trial sometimes permanently damages the relationship of the parents, making co-parenting of their children difficult if not impossible as resentment lingers.

Minnesota parents who choose divorce mediation often preserve and even improve their co-parenting relationship. During mediation, the mediator, who is a trained, third party neutral, meets with the parents and facilitates the negotiation of customized settlement terms. Unlike a family court judge, the mediator does not make decisions for the parents. The parents, guided by the mediator, discuss each term of an agreement and customize it until both parents are able to agreeto the terms.

Since the focus is on the children and collaboration instead of winning, the parenting relationship can be preserved, making co-parenting into the future much easier. Parents are less likely to walk away from mediation feeling hurt and angry, which is a strong possibility after a trial. Mediationcan also improveparental communication, which can also strengthen their co-parenting relationship as they make decisions for their children.


The safety of clients, ourselves, and colleagues is our top priority while we remain available to assist you as you navigate the new and uncharted territory caused by the coronavirus pandemic.


Offering All Services Virtually

While providing virtual ADR services was not part of our plan, we have made the necessary accommodations to ensure we can continue to serve our clients during these unsettling times. All services are currently available through virtually. We are using Zoom for videoconferencing. We suggest that you download this app to your phone or the program to your computer at https://zoom.us/download.


Limited In-Person Services

We have resumed limited in-person services for sessions with 1 or 2 participants scheduled for a maximum of 2 hours. Masks are required in our building and in session. Availability is subject to change based on local regulations and CDC guidelines.


Office Hours

Our office hours remain the same and we remain available by phone and email. The main office number is 952.252.1492. Gabe can be reached via email at gabe@amsmediationplus.com.


New Clients Welcome

We offer free 1-hour divorce consultations via Zoom. Potential PC and PTE clients are invited to schedule a free 15-minute phone call. Please call 952.252.1492 to set up an appointment. We are here to help!

Thank you for your patience and understanding as we all continue to adapt to these rapidly changing and chaotic times. Stay strong, stay resilient, and stay healthy!


Amber Serwat & Gabe Frye
ADR Professional & ADR Assistant

Divorce Mediation & Dispute Resolution Services - Amber Serwat Mediation

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