Divorce and InfidelityAMS Mediation of Burnsville, Minnesota, provides divorce support for those navigating a divorce, regardless of the cause.  Divorce Mediation is increasingly being used by couples who are seeking divorce because it takes less time and is less expensive than traditional court-based divorce proceedings.  When a couple is seeking divorce because one or both members have committed adultery, working with AMS Mediation may be exactly what the couple needs in order to minimize the long-term damage caused by the infidelity. 

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In Minnesota, which is a no-fault divorce state, the definition of ‘adultery’ is extremely outdated.  The definition still holds that adultery occurs only when a married woman is unfaithful to her husband.  This definition does not take into consideration the possibility of a man being unfaithful to his wife, nor of the new legal status of same-sex marriage.  AMS Mediation, however, can help you navigate the specific intricacies of Minnesota law—and can help you and your ex-spouse work through many other emotional and logistical aspects of the divorce process including child support, parenting time and division of property.  Our team has experience working with couples who are seeking divorce after infidelity and our impartial input can help find common ground, even in the most difficult circumstances.

When divorce is sought because one member of the couple has engaged in infidelity, the member of the couple who has been hurt by their spouse’s infidelity is likely to experience a wide range of difficult emotions.  That person is likely to feel betrayed by their cheating partner, which could lead to anger, sadness, depression, and other more subtle, but no less complicated emotions.  AMS Mediation has the training and personal experience to help you gain greater understanding of those complex emotional responses.  On a personal, psychological level, gaining this greater insight can prepare you to heal so that you can move on with your life sooner than later.

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But the immediate assistance that can be provided by AMS Mediation can also give you the strength you need in order to proceed through the divorce with a sense of clarity.  No divorce is easy, but when the decision is made mutually by the couple, stress is likely to be less than when infidelity has surprised one member of the couple.  In such instances, it is very important to have an advocate in your corner, and there can be no better advocate than AMS Mediation.  If you would like more information about the divorce mediation services offered by AMS Mediation, call 952-252-1492.



The safety of clients, ourselves, and colleagues is our top priority while we remain available to assist you as you navigate the new and uncharted territory caused by the coronavirus pandemic.


Offering All Services Virtually

While providing virtual ADR services was not part of our plan, we have made the necessary accommodations to ensure we can continue to serve our clients during these unsettling times. All services are currently available through virtually. We are using Zoom for videoconferencing. We suggest that you download this app to your phone or the program to your computer at https://zoom.us/download.


Limited In-Person Services

We have resumed limited in-person services for sessions with 1 or 2 participants scheduled for a maximum of 2 hours. Masks are required in our building and in session. Availability is subject to change based on local regulations and CDC guidelines.


Office Hours

Our office hours remain the same and we remain available by phone and email. The main office number is 952.252.1492. Gabe can be reached via email at gabe@amsmediationplus.com.


New Clients Welcome

We offer free 1-hour divorce consultations via Zoom. Potential PC and PTE clients are invited to schedule a free 15-minute phone call. Please call 952.252.1492 to set up an appointment. We are here to help!

Thank you for your patience and understanding as we all continue to adapt to these rapidly changing and chaotic times. Stay strong, stay resilient, and stay healthy!


Amber Serwat & Gabe Frye
ADR Professional & ADR Assistant

Divorce Mediation & Dispute Resolution Services - Amber Serwat Mediation

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