Mediators are third party neutrals who help those involved in a dispute reach an agreement outside of the courtroom. The parties typically meet with a mediator in an office to discuss their disagreement and how it may be resolved.

Mediation is used in various types of law, from business disputes to personal injury cases. In Minnesota, family mediators help parties work out their differences in domestic cases, such as divorces and child custody disputes.

Family courts in Minnesota require parties to participate in some form of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) before a trial is scheduled. Although there are many forms of ADR, family mediation is one of the most common and most effective.

In Minnesota, family mediation can address all issues relating to divorce and custody of children including division of all assets and debts (home equity, retirement and loans), financial support (child support and/or spousal maintenance/alimony). And parenting issues including custody and parenting time. During family mediation, the parties share the facts of the case with the mediator and each has the opportunity to explain their wants and needs for each disputed issue.The mediator listens to each side and helps the parties think of creative alternatives and reach compromises in order to reach a comprehensive settlement. The mediator memorializes the parties’ agreements in a written Memorandum of Agreement which is then filed with the court.

Although Minnesota family courts require parties to try to settle their case, the timing of when mediation is scheduled is usually left to the discretion of the parties and/or their attorneys. Given the fact that mediation is much more successful when scheduled early in the process, it makes sense to schedule mediation before adversarial tactics and litigation cause positions to become entrenched. Entrenched positions are even more likely when strong emotions are involved, as they are in family court disputes. Additionally, scheduling family mediation early in the legal process allows parties to settle their disagreements more quickly, saving months of emotional distress and thousands of dollars.


The safety of clients, ourselves, and colleagues is our top priority while we remain available to assist you as you navigate the new and uncharted territory caused by the coronavirus pandemic.


Offering All Services Virtually

While providing virtual ADR services was not part of our plan, we have made the necessary accommodations to ensure we can continue to serve our clients during these unsettling times. All services are currently available through virtually. We are using Zoom for videoconferencing. We suggest that you download this app to your phone or the program to your computer at


Limited In-Person Services

We have resumed limited in-person services for sessions with 1 or 2 participants scheduled for a maximum of 2 hours. Masks are required in our building and in session. Availability is subject to change based on local regulations and CDC guidelines.


Office Hours

Our office hours remain the same and we remain available by phone and email. The main office number is 952.252.1492. Gabe can be reached via email at


New Clients Welcome

We offer free 1-hour divorce consultations via Zoom. Potential PC and PTE clients are invited to schedule a free 15-minute phone call. Please call 952.252.1492 to set up an appointment. We are here to help!

Thank you for your patience and understanding as we all continue to adapt to these rapidly changing and chaotic times. Stay strong, stay resilient, and stay healthy!


Amber Serwat & Gabe Frye
ADR Professional & ADR Assistant

Divorce Mediation & Dispute Resolution Services - Amber Serwat Mediation

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